I begin my work long before I get to my desk.
The walk from the car park to my office takes me through busy campus corridors where people are either rushing to their next meeting or killing time in between them. I once heard an experienced Chaplain talk about the importance of walking slowly on campus. Why? Because the ability to be distracted – availability – is a key characteristic of what it means to be a Chaplain. In Churchy language this is often referred to as a ‘ministry of presence’. Be there, be open, be available. Be the presence of God on campus.
Jesus was always getting distracted. There are several moments in the Bible where we read that He had taken Himself off to pray alone and was followed by people who wanted to hear Him speak. He would be stopped mid-journey by people who needed healing, hope, and restoration. It is a real discipline to be able to live like this; to receive people freely and lovingly, in a world that is so busy and fast-paced. This is the discipline that a Chaplain must master because it is the way of Jesus. It is the way of true accompaniment.
There wasn’t a defining moment when I felt ‘called’ to do this role, but I always loved meeting new people, hearing their story, and communicating my Catholic faith to them in a way that was comprehensible and relevant to their experience. Once I finished my A Levels I did a gap year in youth ministry in the Archdiocese of Birmingham (my home Archdiocese), and there I discovered the joy of relational ministry. In some ways, it was just a matter of time before I ended up a Lay Chaplain!
I love days where I’ve barely had the chance to look at my emails because I’ve been away from my desk accompanying students and staff. I believe that real value in our lives is in our relationships. We remember how people made us feel, more than what they said. We remember the quality of our conversations, and it is in the concrete moments of our day-to-day relationships that God’s love is manifested in the world. When we die, people won’t remember us for what we earned, achieved, or owned. They will remember how we loved.
Catholics believe that the fullness of this love is found in Jesus Christ. In Christ we see the generosity of a God who empties Himself, becomes man, overcomes man’s worst enemy – death itself – and fills each human person with the capacity to live forever and love others without limits.
So that is my mission as a Lay Chaplain; to love like Christ, and to encourage others to do the same.
Hannah Hayward is the Coordinating Lay Chaplain at Leeds Trinity University.