As a teenager, I was always the go to friend. The one who people told their problems to and shared things that started with, ‘I’ve never told anyone this before …’
I didn’t know why or how I’d become that person, but somehow I had. I didn’t know, but God did! People often ask me how I came to be a Lay Chaplain and I think it started as far back as then, a teenager growing up in Blackpool trying to work out who she was and what her purpose was.
It was far from straightforward – I definitely made a few wrong decisions in my youth, believe me! I was really blessed to have the accompaniment of those further on the journey and growing in my faith help to guide me along the way.
I always knew I wanted to work with people and still now love hearing about people’s lives and the journey they’ve been on. I’m fascinated by their experiences, and I love to listen. Accompanying people and coming alongside them in what they are going through is such a privilege, and one I don’t take for granted.
I left University unsure of what career path I wanted to take and soon found myself on a Postgrad in Youth & Community Work alongside a gap year working as a Youth Worker for a Church in Blackpool. Soon after came marriage, children, and a move to Leeds, interspersed with a Children’s Ministry job, and then a job as the New Wine Worship Ministry Manager, which included organising worship teams for large conferences.
No matter the role, I always found myself accompanying people. I didn’t intend to have the deep and meaningful conversations with people, but more often than not, I found myself in them!
It took me a while to recognise that this was something God had laid on my heart – to be available for people, to really listen and show them that they have value and a purpose, and are loved unconditionally by God. This is what led me to become a Lay Chaplain. I am motivated by my faith and a desire to love and serve as Jesus does. When this job at Leeds Trinity University came up, we had just moved back to Leeds for a second time, so the timing (or God’s timing) was perfect!
It’s so easy in a job to get consumed by the little things – the logistics and paperwork – and whilst that is part of the role of a Lay Chaplain (and an important one), what’s more important are the people in front of us.
From running our monthly prayer evenings, (‘Into the Light’ with the Franciscan Sisters) to Homeless Runs and Staff Prayer Breakfasts, Tea on the Landing to one to one’s with those who need to talk, no two days are ever the same, and I wouldn’t have it any other way!
Cat Sayburn is the Lay Chaplain at Leeds Trinity University